I'm belatedly coming back to the Theopolis Institute conversation on the work of the late Michael Heiser.
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Sunday, November 16, 2025
links for the weekend 11-16-2025 Theopolis Institute conversation about the work of the late Michael Heiser, on Heiser's Driscoll foreward and some thoughts on trajectories in demonology and anti-demonology in Christian and Jewish theologies
https://theopolisinstitute.com/conversations/curiosity-and-the-divine-council/
https://theopolisinstitute.com/conversations/evaluating-the-divine-council-theology-of-michael-heiser-and-christopher-kous-adaptations/
https://theopolisinstitute.com/conversations/heisers-interpretive-iconoclasm/
Mark and Grace Driscoll
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Foreward by Michael S. Heiser pages xxiii-xxv
--Dr. Michael S. Heiser
PhD, Hebrew Bible and Semitic Studies
Executive Director, Awakening School of Theology and Ministry
Author, The Unseen Realm, Angels, AND Supernatural
Fast forward twenty years later and, as you can see, people at the Theopolis Institute have been having a round table discussing the late Michael Heiser’s work.
https://www.christianitytoday.com/2021/07/mars-hill-elders-letter-mark-driscoll-pastor-resign-trinity/
https://www.christianitytoday.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/mars-hill-former-elders-statement.pdf
https://churchleaders.com/news/402200-former-mars-hill-elders-plead-for-mark-driscoll-to-resign-immediately.html
https://julieroys.com/mark-driscoll-unfit-former-mars-hill-elders/
My skepticism about varieties of Christian nationalism from evangelical conservatives and liberal mainline Protestants is pretty equal. The latter dread the influence of the former precisely because the Protestant and mainline denominations threw in with pax Americana and American expansion across the 19th and 20th centuries and dread the prospect of a 21st century dominated by evangelical or charismatic/Pentecostal types with views of spiritual warfare that can feature a Paula White being a spiritual advisor to President Trump.
So at a practical level just saying Heiser had some bad ideas that shouldn't be adopted proves nothing in itself about the life lived. Doug Wilson can keep gushing about R L Dabney's prophetic wisdom and vision but Dabney's white supremacism was still what it was, for instance, and we've had eight No Quarter Novembers and hardly a word from Wilson about the Mark Driscoll he said he still liked in 2014. Having met the man myself some twenty-five years ago I really believe that the Mark Driscoll of 2005 would regard the Mark Driscoll of 2023 to the present as dangerously misguided and a charismaniac of the worst sort.
1) more people believe in supernatural powers, forces and persons now than ever before both because there are literally more people on the planet and because they didn't stop believing in this stuff just because it's a rote notion in the academy that Weber's disenchantment thesis has been "proven"2) the entire field of "human sciences" has had partisans eager to sweep under the rug the pervasive interest in the occult held by pioneers in the social sciences (Carl Jung was merely one of the more obvious and unavoidable examples). Reckoning with where the human sciences can go "from here" needs to take seriously what the Euro-American academic mainstream has been scrupulously trying to ignore for the whole history of fields like psychology and sociology (and it's not the replication crisis, which Andrew Scull has written about as a crisis that has bedeviled psychiatry from its inception)
Wednesday, August 31, 2022
the theme at Mark Driscoll's twitter feed this week is fear (update 9-4-22, toward a proposal that the Driscolls now use forgiveness teaching as a form of apotropaic magic)
Pastor Mark Driscoll
@PastorMark
Fear will come upon you, but you can't let it in you.
11:59 AM · Aug 27, 2022
https://twitter.com/PastorMark/status/1563964381196652545
Pastor Mark Driscoll
@PastorMark
There’s always something to fear. You can look out in fear or look up in faith.
11:59 AM · Aug 28, 2022
https://twitter.com/PastorMark/status/1564327027188056066
Pastor Mark Driscoll
@PastorMark
Faith and fear can't coexist.
12:00 PM · Aug 29, 2022·
https://twitter.com/PastorMark/status/1564689660672184323
Sometimes fear does more damage to you than the person or thing you're afraid of.
12:01 PM · Aug 30, 2022
https://twitter.com/PastorMark/status/1565052048160264193
When the spirit of fear oppress you it turns into false prophecy over your life.
12:01 PM · Aug 31, 2022
Saturday, November 13, 2021
CT v CT again: Driscoll alleges that Christian Theology (which ones?) err by defining spiritual warfare as personal rather than systemic (which means he's never read Caird, Berkhof, Wink or Stringfellow)
Page 20
The point is that unified
unbelievers seeking to make Heaven on earth without
God are more powerful than divided believers. Jesus said that a house divided
cannot stand up but will fall. Knowing this, the Critic behind Critical Theory,
the same spirit that was at work in Babel (also known as Babylon), is seeking
to divide believers and unify unbelievers to dismantle systems and institutions
and redistribute wealth and power to build their version of Heaven on earth
without God. Simply stated, this is a counterfeit of God’s Kingdom ruled by King
Jesus - our kingdom ruled by us.
Sunday, September 12, 2021
The double standards of vulnerability in Mark Driscoll’s spiritual warfare teachings--more thoughts on Episode 8 of The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill
Of necessity a podcast can only be so long. Mike Cosper recently alluded to Mark Driscoll regarding women who wanted to befriend his wife as threats, without necessarily quoting Driscoll directly in Episode 8 of The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill.
For those who want to know what Cosper
was alluding to, here you go:
On Episode 8, “Demon Hunting” of The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, disputing that Driscoll’s early influences on spiritual warfare were charismatic by way of his copious statements to the show otherwise
Thursday, July 29, 2021
supplemental reading for those who heard Episode 5 of The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, a survey of materials formerly and currently available from Driscoll germane to the topic of what married women were told (or expected) to do
I have been thinking about episode 5 from The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill. It was pretty well-done but I confess to ambivalence. I am glad that the Scotland sermon was quoted so extensively, although the audio sounded a little sped-up to make sure there was room for the whole clip in the podcast. Nevertheless, I agree with exactly how much of the excerpt they quoted. Longtime readers will not be surprised I think so because I transcribed the entire anecdote myself here at Wenatchee The Hatchet.
I have, it turns out, written considerably more on these topics as a single guy than I would have guessed I would have but sex, sexuality, gender, and gender roles were so inextricably part of Mark Driscoll’s shtick it is impossible to not run into them.
Sunday, July 11, 2021
Mark and Grace Driscoll's Win Your War chapter 20 on Native American spirituality--a dumpster fire of historical and cultural laziness about PNW tribes, with a goal of talking about "counterfeits to Christ" with no sign of fake resurrection rituals titleholders undertook through the ritual killing of their slaves in the PNW
Saturday, February 27, 2021
A Prelude and Fugue on demons and exorcism in American civil religion (by way of statue toppling and punditry on critical theory)
What I’m about to present is not so much an essay in a usual sense but more as the literary equivalent of a prelude with a fugue--a path of reading by way of a river of citations. Think of it as a literally prosaic variation on a methodology of quotation used in T. S. Eliot’s “The Wasteland”.
This is a survey of some reading I was doing in 2020 on the topic of statue toppling, statue vandalism, and the reactions of leftist, progressive, liberal, conservative and maybe even some reactionary responses. I saw a fair bit of coverage that tacitly discussed the toppling of the statues of slave traders and slave owners in terms of political history but less often in terms of civic religion. The conservative bromides about how toppling statues was a bid to erase history seemed to me in egregiously bad faith because, well, that may give me the opportunity to quote extravagantly from Jaques Ellul’s book The New Demons on the concept of the sacred as it relates to political life. So ...
Tuesday, January 19, 2021
Dale Coulter has an article at Firebrand that is a good overview of the neo-charismatic/New Apostolic Reformation scene that has gained momentum since the Obama and Trump administrations
One of the weirdest things, as someone who has tried to keep track of theological ideas, is that there's been a new branch of charismatic Christianity in the last forty years that retained all of its Pentecostal ancestry on pneumatology but has added a post-Rushdooney post-millenialist cultural mandate, which, for this formerly Pentecostal Presbyterian is what I'd personally describe as the worst of both worlds (the untethered "I have super-powers" pneumatology combined with the post-millenialist entitlement mentality that was an element in Manifest Destiny). The article can be read at the link below
it's a good introductory piece on the last forty years of neo-charismatic/New Apostolic Reformation Christianity in the U.S. to read alongside Julia Duin's recent work on how a failure to distinguish between these groups just mentioned and evangelicalism can lead to sloppy reporting on which evangelicals have been backing Trump. wjocj upi cam read be;pw.
Saturday, January 16, 2021
updated version of the reading list from November 2020 on exorcism, diabology, Jesus as exorcist, spiritual warfare, and associated themes (updated 7-4-2026)
Updated list, titles in blue are books I've finished. Bold indicates books I liked/found helpful. There are tiny summaries in some cases and full-blown reviews that need to be written in some cases. Some of the books in the list are, predictably, downright awful others are fantastic.
Thursday, January 14, 2021
Alan Jacobs had some posts on types of dualisms where he pit Obama against Kendi but in a way that seems sloppy, a sloppy prelude to a possible future post on the default of spiritual warfare manuals in pop U.S. Christianity to a white racial frame
The point I’ve always made to Ta-Nehisi, the point I sometimes make to Michelle, the point I sometimes make to my own kids — the question is, for me, “Can we make things better?”
I used to explain to my staff after we had a long policy debate about anything, and we had to make a decision about X or Y, “Well, if we do this I understand we’re not getting everything we’re hoping for, but is this better?” And they say yes, and I say, “Well, better is good. Nothing wrong with better.”
There’s no saving America’s soul. There’s no restoring the soul. There’s no fighting for the soul of America. There’s no uniting the souls of America. There is only fighting off the other soul of America.
Obama and Trump did not poison the American soul any more than Biden can heal it. Trump battled for the soul of injustice, and the voters sent him home. Soon, President Biden can battle for the soul of justice.
Our past breaths do not bind our future breaths. I can battle for the soul of justice. And so can you. And so can we. Like our ancestors, for our children. We can change the world for Gianna Floyd. We can — once and for all — win the battle between the souls of America.
This morning I’m doing my weekly reading of the news, and I’ve just read these two stories, from the same magazine, back to back. The contrast is illuminating. One sees politics as the hard slow work of improving the world; the other see politics as the movement towards a final confrontation, on the plain of Megiddo I suppose, between the forces of Righteousness and the forces of Evil.
https://blog.ayjay.org/the-two-parties/
The United States of America has long had a two-party political system, but it now has a two-party social system also. The social system is not divided between Republicans and Democrats but rather between Manichaeans and Humanists. The Manichaean Party is headed by Donald Trump. He works in close concert with Ibram X. Kendi, Eric Metaxas, Xavier Becerra, and Rush Limbaugh, but really, the Party wouldn’t exist at all without him. The Humanist Party, by contrast, doesn’t have an obvious leadership structure and doesn’t make a lot of noise; its chief concern is less to enforce an agenda than to make it a little harder for the Manichaeans to enforce theirs.
The Manichaeans say, all together and in a very loud voice, You are wholly with us or wholly against us! Make your decision! I don’t know when I’ve had an easier choice.
Jacobs might feel perfectly comfortable bracketing Metaxas and Kendi into paradoxically being on the same team. But if Kendi's dualism even "can" be compared to the spiritual warfare mentality of Jericho March types or Eric Metaxas, then Jacobs could more studious about explaining overlapping methodologies in a way that could account for the obviously real differences between someone like Metaxas and someone like Kendi. Most people can differentiate between ideologues who are "left" and "right" or "progressive" and "reactionary" and one of the problems with Jacobs' hasty taxonomy is that I don't think he can sustain a case that among the ideologues we're looking at people who are functionally totalitarian. An ideologue might have a litmus test in which anti-racism must manifest in support for reparations, which Kendi has indicated in some writing in the past, but that's not the same as casting doubt on the legitimacy of electoral processes and simultaneously claiming a divine mandate for Trump's victory. Maybe some Trump supporters THINK Kendi has done that but I haven't sensed that Kendi has!
But Kendi's language does suggest that there are progressive and conservative voices who have no problem invoking what in traditional theological talk would be known as the language of spiritual warfare. Kendi has definitely invoked and evoked the idea of a Manichaean struggle between forces of good and evil, I'll grant Jacobs that much. But whether or not Obama's proceduralism is necessary a healthy alternative to Kendi's activism I am not entirely sure about.
I don't think it's actually wrong, writing as a Christian, to simply state that white supremacist mentalities should be considered demonic strongholds in Western cultural history and that racial supremacist views can and should be considered "doctrines of demons". There, just put that in print for the record. I don't have to agree with several specific "how" elements of Kendi's policy recommendations or approach to historiography to agree that the "what" of white supremacist defaults is something that should be combatted.
Having just slogged through John H Walton and J Harvey Walton's mostly time-wasting book Demons and Spirits in Biblical Theology: Reading the Biblical Text in Its Cultural and Literary Context, one of the things I found annoying about the book, besides the authors' sloppy and vague definition of "conflict theology" and a reticence to just admit their real target is Greg Boyd's open theistic conception of spiritual warfare is that they misrepresent, I think, Jeffrey Burton Russell's five books' project on the history of Abrahamic religious thought about personified evil as though the eruption of functional dualism is, however unbiblical the Waltons think it is, is something that has to be best battled against by exegeting demons out of every proof-text ever used by Jews or Christians with respect to evil spirits. The irony of such a project is that within ostensibly secular or mainstream progressive, liberal and exvangelical scenes invoking spiritual warfare language has been overt in the liberal/progressive wing of Christianity (a la Greg Boyd) even more so than within evangelical contexts (although not at all that subset of evangelicalism known as Pentecostalism but I'm saving the topics of forty-plus books on spiritual warfare, exorcism, diabology, the Watchers tradition in 2nd Temple Judaism and the like for some other time!)
Take this podcast title "Powers and Principalities".
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coming-soon-powers-principalities/id1135731794?i=1000485984924
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Powers & Principalities, a new podcast series from Blake about the systems and institutions that propagate white evangelical & Christian nationalist sociopolitical power. Debuting in late August 2020.
Follow along in the Exvangelical feed, or subscribe to the new show directly on Spotify. (The feed is new, and will appear on other platforms soon.)
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That's openly using Ephesians 6 language about powers and principalities to describe the systems and institutions that propagate white evangelical Christian nationalist power. That the white evangelicals were merely aping and aspiring to the power they saw the mainlines have before them seems to not come up so much in discussions of evangelicalism. If, as is easily done, evangelicals are punchlines about how uncreative they are then do mainlines and progressives think that evangelicals are solely guilty of Manifest Destiny ideas or have evangelicals in the early 21st century become, possibly, a useful scapegoat for still embracing ideas that they parasitically absorbed from the mainlines they were extracting themselves from between the last 100 and 50 years?
After all, check out the index of episodes.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/exvangelical/id1135731794
Now even as a moderately conservative Calvinist I've been bugged by what I'd have to call the default "white racial frame" in pop level spiritual warfare books. It's a topic I do hope to actually blog about later this year. I'd add books on the topic of spiritual warfare by African American theologians and am open to recommendations that ... aren't Charisma House or in that orbit. I've got some articulate and thoughtful books by African pastors and theologians I'm working through right now, actually, and added some Andrei Orlov to my list recently, too. All that is a tangent with a theme, which is to say that I think American Christians may benefit from perusing through spiritual warfare manuals at the pop and even academic level and thinking about what someone like Merrill Unger was getting at in his dismissive remarks about "ethnic demonology".
By the way, I am not intending to castigate the Waltons in a categorical way. I have heard some folks say positive things about John Walton's work but I am reminded of something Jim West blogged a decade ago about how Walton seemed eager to rescue the text from something rather than just exegete it.
Meanwhile, I refrained from blogging about this stuff last month because I was determined to be on a blogging vacation but this is something I wanted to blog at least something about for a few weeks. It would be one thing for Jacobs to stake out an overtly and explicitly anti-utopian stance, as Richard Taruskin has done for decades, regardless of where the utopians formally land on a spectrum (I can't forget Taruskin's very sharp-edged observation that it doesn't matter how far "left" or "right" you go in European history seeing as in both extremes somehow people agree that the "solution" is to kill more Jews!). That reminds me of something my Native American relatives used to tell me about how the American Civil War worked, that there were white racists in the North fighting white racists in the South about how to treat black people and after that sorta ended they agreed that they all wanted to gang up and kill Indians!
Maybe it's because I gravitated into the realm of the hair-splitting Reformed scene but Jacobs' "two-party system" seemed far too pat. It doesn't mean I plan to stop reading Jacobs over that, I read people I don't always agree with, I even read people with whom I have vehement disagreements on a semi-regular basis.
The other thing is, I've read enough progressive and leftist writers to get a sense that using Obama as the example of a counter to Kendi has a flaw in it, which is that the history of injustice can often enough be masked by the appearance of reasonable proceduralism ... the trouble with that being that it's kind of like "witchcraft". Susan R. Garrett, in her book The Demise of the Devil in the Gospel of Luke pointed out something simple and obvious but necessary, that generally witchcraft is less a cohesive, definable set of practices than a polemical accusation. Alan Jacobs treating Kendi and Metaxas as somehow combined into the second party in a "two party system" seems comparably sloppy.
Saturday, September 05, 2020
since 2019, an official 180 degree turn from Mark Driscoll on interpreting Genesis 6:1-4 ... so he's caught up to the last thirty years of Enochic scholarship but ... why would Satan try to replicate the Incarnation before it happened?
https://www.facebook.com/pastormark/videos/does-genesis-6-teach-that-aliens-mated-with-women-and-created-a-super-race/591300321339707/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EMwsjyL9ow
Sunday, August 02, 2020
postlude to Throckmorton interview with Turner and Bruskas: Justin Dean tweets links to interview, discovers he's been blocked by Driscoll
Tuesday, June 09, 2020
a reading list, for the moment presented without much explanation (11-14-2020, but it's a list of books on exorcism, diabology, The Watchers tradition, and spiritual warfare manuals in Christian writings and academic commentary thereon spanning 1895 to 2020)
Saturday, March 07, 2020
Mark Driscoll vs St. Jerome on whether Daniel 4 describes Nebuchadnezzar as becoming demon possessed as the reason for going insane
Earlier this week Driscoll published a post that was titled "Was King Nebuchadnezzar Demon Possessed?" There's no textual case for that on the basis of any reading of Daniel 4 but Driscoll doesn't let that stop him from asserting away. That's the TL:DR version for you. If you want to read a more extensive response to Driscoll's claim, which will be quoted extensively ...
Saturday, November 16, 2019
Wendy Alsup in 2019 shared that Mark Driscoll has considered her a contentious women, so we revisit Driscoll's February 2008 declaration that she was fantastic and not like demonic busybody gossips in his spiritual warfare session. So, what happened?
http://wenatcheethehatchet.blogspot.com/search/label/spiritual%20warfare%202008
http://wenatcheethehatchet.blogspot.com/2014/11/2-5-2008-spiritual-warfare-part-2-part_70.html
http://download.marshill.se/files/MH%20Vodcast%20Video/2008/
http://download.marshill.se/files/MH%20Vodcast%20Video/2008/20080205_the-devil_vodcast.m4v
February 5, 2008
Pastor Mark Driscoll
Part 2: The Devil
49:58
How about this one? Idle gossip and busybodying. 1 Timothy 5:11-15. THIS one is amazing. Ladies this one is especially for you. Some of you say, "Oh, it's not me." Yeah, it is. [emphasis added] 1 Timothy 5:11-15, "but refuse to enroll younger widows for when their passions draw them away from Christ they desire to marry and so incur condemnation for having abandoned their former faith. Besides that they learn to be idlers" Women learn how to make a lot of free time. Going about from house to house. Well now it would be from email to email and from phone call to phone call. Technology makes idle busybodying far more effective than ever.
And not only idlers but also gossips. They like to talk about people. How are you doing? What are you doing? And this isn't sisterly accountability, this is "I need to know what everybody's doing because I like to know what everybody's doing and then I can tell other people what other people are doing and then I can say, `Hey, you need to pray for so-and-so.' and I can make it sound spiritual so that when I'm gossiping and busy-bodying I'm doing so in a way that seems really Jesus-like." And busybodies, they need to know what everybody's doing. They need to know what everybody's doing, saying what they should not. So I would have younger widows marry, bear children and manage their household, right? Stay busy, and give the adversary (that's Satan) no occasion for slander. For some have already strayed after Satan. Hmm.
A woman who's a gossip and a busybody; a woman who has to put her nose in everybody's business and knows what everybody's going on; know what they're doing, she's working with Satan. Now I know most women would say: "No, no, no. I'm not Satanic, I'm concerned. I'm not Satanic, I'm an intercessor. I'm a prayer warrior. I'm not Satanic, I'm an accountability partner. I'm not Satanic, I'm a concerned friend." Okay, you're a Satanic intercessory prayer warrior accountability partner concerned friend but just start the whole list with "Satanic" so that we don't misunderstand your job description.
Now there's a difference between someone inviting you into their life and saying, "I want to be friends, I want to have an accountable relationship." and you pushing yourself into everyone's life, okay? I'll tell you, in the history of Mars Hill, I mean, I have had to put up a firewall, a moat, guard dogs, and a high wall with barbed wire on the top, and snipers behind it, around my wife. There are certain women who, they just need to know what Grace is doing and they are determined, they say things like, uh, "Hey, we need to have dinner with your family."
[slight chuckle] No you don't.
"Hey, we need to have coffee."
No you don't.
"Hey, phone number."
What? Nope.
"Email." Nope.
Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope.
"Oh, come on." Nope.
"But I thought you were our pastor."
I am and my first lesson is to tell you you're Satanic.
"Oh, come on, in our last church the pastor's wife [sob] she was my best friend and I got to talk to her all the time."
Well, she was Satanic, too. Give me her number, I'll call her and tell her. We'll help her out.
You ladies KNOW these women. Right? How many of you ladies know these women? They will try first with the hyper-spiritual, "Oh, praise the Lord! I'd love to pray for you. Let's get together. Let's do Christian community. Let's go to heart." If you decline, then they emotionally manipulate, [inhales, sobbing voice], "I thought we were friends, I thought you loved me. I don't have anybody to talk to." It's all manipulation. It's FEMALE manipulation. Some of you ladies, right now? You think, "I can't believe he said that." It's all true. It's Satanic, Satanic.
Paul says, "Don't be a busybody, stay busy." Right? Your husband, your kids, your family, your home, Jesus Christ. You got things to do.
Busybodies stay busy inserting themselves into everyone else's life. In some churches there are certain women, if you call them, they'll know everything that's going on because, somehow, they know everything. There's a difference between being a woman who is invited into someone's life for friendship, prayer and accountability, and a woman who emotionally manipulates and is pushy and is sometimes hyperspiritual and demanding and forces herself in because she's a drama queen and has to be at the center of all the drama. That is a Satanic woman.
You need to believe that and the worst thing you can do is accomodate her. Okay, we'll have you over for dinner once. And then, the next month, it's "Okay, buddy, we haven't been together in a month. We need to get together again. I'm sure a lot has happened in your life and I don't know what it is and I need to know because I need to know everything. I have a God complex of omniscience. I want to know everything about everybody." And what you find with these people, Paul says, they tend to be gossips, meaning you don't just talk to them, then they talk to other people. "Well, did you know their marriage is struggling? Did you know that she's depressed? Did you know that she's post-partum? Do you know that, sexually, her husband's impotent?" These are the conversations I've heard in this building. Really?
Sometimes womens' ministry is the cesspool that this kind of activity flourishes in. Some have asked, "Why don't you have womens' ministry?" The answer is we do, but it's, you have to be very careful, it's like juggling knives. You put the wrong women in charge of womens' ministry, the drama queen, the gossip mama, all of a sudden all the women come together, tell her everything, she becomes the pseudo-elder quasi-matriarch; she's got the dirt on everybody and sometimes the women all get together to just rip on their husbands in the name of prayer requests. Happens all the time. Happens all the time. We have worked very hard so that the women who teach here are like Wendy Alsup who I really love and appreciate and respect. She's not like that. It is not that no woman should lead, that no woman should teach, that no woman should in a position of authority over other women under the authority of their husband, Jesus and the elders it's just that the wrong women tend to want it. The wrong women tend to want it and they tend to want it for the wrong reasons. And sometimes it's the humble woman, who isn't fighting to be the center of drama, control and power; who doesn't have to be up front; she's usually the one who is most capable and qualified. [emphases added]
And for you single men as well I would say be very, very careful because if you're on staff at Mars Hill (everything I say sounds terrible, this will just be added to the pile) there are certain women who will tell you, "I want to marry a pastor." Really? You should want to marry a Christian who loves Jesus, loves you, loves your kids should God give them to you. I've lectured enough Bible colleges and seminaries, the young women who come up and say, "I want to marry a pastor" my immediate default question is, "Are you a gossip? Are you a busybody? Are you a drama queen?" "No. No, I feel called to serve the Lord." Well, you can serve the Lord without being called to be a pastor's wife in fact, take it from me, it's easier to be a woman and serve the Lord than being married to a pastor. You single guys, you gotta be careful, man. There are some women, they want to marry the pastor so they can be the center of power, authority; they can be the first lady; everybody knows them, everybody wants to be their friend, everybody wants to tell them everything; and they can be the center of all the drama. Run for your life. Run for your life. Run for your life. It's Satanic.
See? I need you women to really search your own heart. Are you Satanic? Is this still part of your flesh, this sick desire in you to know everybody's business? I'm not saying you don't have friends but how much are you on the internet? How much time do you spend emailing? How much time do you spend crying and freaking out and knowing everybody's business and on the phone and having to meet with people because, "Did you know so-and-so did such-and-such and so-and-so is feeling this way and did you--?" Are you the center of LOTS of activity? Why? It's Satanic. It's Satanic. I think I've made my point.
Now the thing that's interesting about that February 2008 statement is that it may have been given by Mark Driscoll before the Alsups had decided to leave Mars Hill. Wendy might have to clarify the specifics and details of a timeline of when things happened. I mention all of these because Wendy wrote on the topic of the late Rachel Held Evans earlier in the year and mentioned that at some point since 2008 Mark Driscoll decided and told at least someone that Wendy was a contentious woman.
https://theologyforwomen.org/2019/05/rhe-and-women-who-question.html
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Rachel Held Evans came to my attention when I was internally questioning things at Mars Hill without the courage to verbalize it. Mark Driscoll had a low bar for labeling a questioning woman as contentious. And I didn’t have the emotional confidence to bear up under such a label. If he had labeled me contentious in the early years (as he later did), I would have believed him. [emphasis added]
I have remained convinced that authors like Mark Driscoll and Rachel Held Evans are the kinds of authors we need less of in Christian popular publishing. Even though I can respect that RHE was willing to speak up in disagreement with Mark Driscoll in spite of his popularity I couldn't help but notice that her biggest moment of dissent from his views was in the year of 2011, when she had a book of her own that was also published through Thomas Nelson, as Mark Driscoll's Real Marriage would be. She was not saying much during the plagiarism controversy of late 2013 or the ResultSource controversy of early 2014, controversies brought into the news by Janet Mefferd and Warren Cole Smith respectively, if memory serves. Which is to say, bluntly, progressives may have cheered the demise of Mark Driscoll but that demise was the result of a spectrum-spanning process of journalistic investigation and theological discussion.
What I want to highlight, that I have highlighted, is Wendy pointing out that Mark Driscoll eventually did label her a contentious woman. Whether that designation was handed out after the review of Real Marriage Wendy wrote with her husband in 2012, or earlier, I couldn't say. The reversal of opinion and statement is the thing, that after having said "she's not like" in 2008, not like those women Mark Driscoll regarded as satanic busybodies and gossips interested in being in control, at some point after 2008 he decided Wendy Alsup was a contentious woman after all and said so enough that Wendy eventually heard about it.
As Wendy pointed out, Mark Driscoll had a very low bar for what he regarded as contentious. We've seen for ourselves that Mark Driscoll in 2008 was willing to joke about his regarding women as demonic who expressed interest in being friends with his wife. Regarding women who want to be friends with your wife and say so as demonic circa 2008 and saying so to your staff probably fits the bill of having a low bar for defining a woman as contentious.
Having discussed this in the series of posts analyzing the 2008 spiritual warfare teaching I'm drawing upon it again to establish what Wendy refers to when she wrote that Mark Driscoll had a low bar for defining what kind of woman he considered contentious, by way of demonstrating in a reverse process what things he considered praiseworthy about the ways he protected Grace Driscoll from people he considered bad influences.
https://wenatcheethehatchet.blogspot.com/2014/11/2-5-2008-spiritual-warfare-part-2-part_20.html
the pertinent anecdotes start at about 33:40
http://download.marshill.se/files/MH%20Audio/2008/20080928_sweet-to-my-taste_sd_audio.mp3
... and this is an ENORMOUS part of my relationship with Grace. I mean I still remember when I first started seeing her she, uh, she went off to college, I was still in high school and they ran out of housing so they put her in a guys' dorm. And I was like, "What!?" so I got in the car and I drove to the university and I knocked on all the doors of all the guys on her floor. "Hi. My name is Mark. I love this woman. Anyone talks to her, touches her, thinks about talking about touching her I will beat them. Literally I threatened twenty guys. Just knocked on every door. No way she's gonna get messed with. No way.
Later on when she transferred to another university, WSU, she's five hours away. And she moved out there and her phone wasn't hooked up yet and we didn't have cell phones. And I told her, "When you get there, go to a pay phone. Call me. Let me know you got there safe." Well she ... didn't call so I got in the car and I drove there. Five hours. The day I had to work. And I knocked on the door. She answered it and I said, "Whu, you didn't call." She said, "I forgot." I said, "Are you okay?" She said, "I'm okay." So, okay, good, I got in the car and I drove home. Just checking. Six hundred miles. Who cares? It's Grace.
... even emotionally, people send her nasty emails, text messages, talk trash about me, leave the church and want to take parting shots at her. She has nothing to do with any of it. So I even put a white/black list on her email and some people so some people can email her and the rest come to me. Delete. Delete. Delete. Delete. Delete. Delete. Delete. So that she doesn't have to feel bad because people are taking shots at her. That's my girl. No shots. That's the rule. [emphasis added]
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But Grace Driscoll trained in public relations ... so her ability to deal with the public would seem to be a given. It would not be very difficult to say that those things Mark Driscoll boasted from the pulpit were signs of his chivalrous care for the woman he loves could be seen as paranoid, jealous and controlling.
Between the plagiarism and the Result Source contract and patterns of behavior that could be regarded as paranoid and controlling on the part of Mark Driscoll, if Wendy concluded Driscoll had some character issues and wrote about her concerns on that issue and, in response to that, Mark Driscoll decided she was contentious then this probably tells us more about Mark Driscoll than it does about Wendy Alsup.
What makes Driscoll's praise of Wendy so peculiar in February 2008 was this was during the same session where he explicitly said that distrust of the Mars Hill executive elders was a demonic thing.
https://wenatcheethehatchet.blogspot.com/2014/11/2-5-2008-spiritual-warfare-part-1-part_19.html
https://wenatcheethehatchet.blogspot.com/2014/11/2-5-2008-spiritual-warfare-part-1-part.html
I think one of the great myths that has come about (it's a demonic lie) is that myself, the executive elders, the senior leaders we don't care about people. I was the only one who did ANY counseling until we had 800 people. We still do tons of shepherding, counseling, spiritual warfare, conflict. But we try to do so in a way that is humble, that isn't "and here is who I served and here are the demons we cast out and here's the list of people that I've healed." That's demonic. The truth is I love the people as much--actually, more than anyone in this church. And the senior leaders, the campus pastors, the departmental leaders, the executive elders love the people in this church as much or more than anyone else in this church. And one of my great concerns is not just, "Can you hold hands and help sheep?" but "can you also flip the staff over and defend against a wolf?" You HAVE to have that discernment, that courage, and that ability to tell someone: "You are in sin. That is false doctrine. You are not qualified to be a leader. If you do not repent you are not welcome here. And I will speak truthfully to those who want to follow you because my job is for the well-being of the sheep."
So distrusting the Mars Hill executive elders in the wake of the 2007 governance changes and what turned out to be kangaroo court trials for Paul Petry and Bent Meyer came from a myth and a demonic lie, but Wendy was great because she wasn't like the demonic busybody gossipy women in February 2008. But then ... something happened. Wendy and Andy Alsup left Mars Hill some time in the 2008 year, perhaps. Exactly when Driscoll decided Wendy was contentious can't be gleaned from Wendy's post,, but what can be understood is that Wendy deciding to publicly criticize Driscoll for his views and conduct probably had a role in Mark Driscoll changing his mind on whether Wendy was one of "those women".