consult pages 16-21
particularly note page 21 where a book recommended for both men and women to read is The Wounded Heart by Dan Allender.
So there you have it. It turns out that Mark Driscoll was willing to recommend Allender's work to married men at a May 20, 2006 teaching event. This makes it even more baffling why Grace Driscoll would claim there were no useful or helpful resources for victims of sexual abuse at Mars Hill when she shared her story with Mark Driscoll and by the Driscolls' account she shared her story in 2006.
It can't be said she was unfamiliar with Allender's work because as far back as 2001, and maybe even 1998, she'd mentioned in a deacon profile Allender was one of her favorites. And thanks to Mars Hill making so the 2006 Men's Training Camp booklet available for public consultation we can now establish that Mark Driscoll was familiar with Allender's work, apparently he was at least willing to recommend it as a help for the sexually abused. This makes the failure of Mark and Grace Driscoll to credit Allender's work in Real Marriage when it was originally published ever more mysterious and ever less excusable.