Tuesday, October 02, 2012
HT Mockingbird: America the Anxious
Cynicism is the British shtick. When happiness does come our way, it is entirely without effort, as unmeritocratic as a hereditary peerage. By contrast, in America, happiness is work. Intense, nail-biting work, slogged out in motivational seminars and therapy sessions, meditation retreats and airport bookstores. For the left there’s yoga, for the right, there’s Jesus. For no one is there respite.
a few more choice snippets.
... Even basic contentment feels like failure when pitched against capital-H Happiness. The goal is so elusive and hard to define, it’s impossible to pinpoint when it’s even been achieved — a recipe for neurosis.
A few more things could be quoted but this might be the most to-the-point proposal.
Happiness should be serendipitous, a by-product of a life well lived, and pursuing it in a vacuum doesn’t really work.